I have been volunteering with the organization called
Families Helping Families. This
organization helps families of those with special needs children. I admire their hard work, dedication, and
commitment. I heard about this
organization when I was in high school, however I didn’t volunteer at any
events until December 2012. I
volunteered at their New Year’s Eve party, and this was a different experience
for me since my previous volunteer experience has been at a hospital. At the party, I was able to interact with the
kids and their families and we spent the day playing games and dancing. It was an amazing feeling to see the smiles
on their faces and was a wonderful experience.
In January, I began volunteering as a mentor at
social skills group. At first I was a little
nervous because I was afraid that I wouldn’t be able to connect with the kids
or that they wouldn’t be comfortable sharing their problems and stories with
me. But I soon realized that that wasn’t
a problem. A typical day of volunteering
at the social skills group starts by meeting with Andrea, the CEO and Program
Director. At this meeting she tells us
what topics will be discussed or should be addressed. Then we’ll greet the kids and ask about their
week or day at school. As we talk about
any problems that came up in their classrooms with their friends or peers, we
will complete an arts and crafts project.
We make sure to address the “theme” of that day and listen to their
opinions on how to solve the problem.
I decided to volunteer with Families Helping Families because
it was something new and different for me. I feel that we should have experiences outside
our comfort zone because it allows us to be more aware of the world around us
and helps us become more open minded, diverse, and mature as people. Working with others and meeting new people is
always a great opportunity. With this
particular service, we have to be able to not only work and associate with the
kids but also take their concerned loving parents into consideration. I think the most unique thing about this
opportunity is being able to interact with the kids; as a mentor, we are able
to share our advice and opinions about something that they value. As a mentor, we are able to let them know we’re
there for them. I think what most people
don’t realize with these children is that they aren’t any different from any
other person; they’re all smart, wonderful, and beautiful children. I think that many people underestimate these
children and never give them the chance to show their wonderful qualities. Volunteering with Families Helping Families
has helped me to view the world around me and become open minded, it allows me
to not be judgmental. I have always
wanted to become a pediatrician and working with these children is a wonderful
experience. It’s a great feeling to be
able to connect with them, share a story, and give them advice. Not only are
they learning from the mentors, but we learn so much from them.
To learn more about Families Helping Families, please visit, http://fhfnyc.org/.